Anal Sex Mastery in 5 Minutes – Trust me, you don’t want to miss this
Anal sex is an act in which one inserts the penis, fingers, or objects into the anus for sexual pleasure. The sexual pleasures and physical sensations of anal sex are uniquely different from regular intercourse. Since the rectum is lined with nerve endings, it can feel good when stimulated. For women, this can result in an orgasm as the space between the female vagina and rectum is so thin that the penis or vibrator will press against the G-spot. For men, the prostate gland can be a source of great pleasure with strong sensations to enjoy.
Anal penetration is always the most difficult the first time as the anus is squeezed into the opening of the rectum. As such, be sure to use plenty of lube for any penetration.
Start with a well-lubricated finger or thin dildo. Use your fingers to apply lubricants around the anal area in slow motion. Slide one finger in slowly, letting your partner adjust to it. Pull your finger out completely and push it back in. Give your partner some time to get used to this type of activity before you slide a second finger. Your partner must relax the rectum muscle at this time, or the insertion will cause pain.
An important point to remember is that the anus has bacteria that can cause disease. Any object used for insertion should be washed and cleaned. So be sure to clean them with disinfectant soap after anal play, even if a condom is used during the act. Care must also be taken not to let bacteria from the anus enter the vagina.
It is best if a person empties their bowels before anal penetration and washes well before and after anal sex or oral-anal contact. Although, technically it is not possible to get pregnant from anal sex; semen that comes out of the anus after intercourse or penetration can leak between the vulva and the anus.
Anal sex can be painful the first time, but remember that relaxation and patience are the keys to minimizing pain. Try and explore other ways or variations to get your anal sex experience.