Safe seduction methods and dating tips for guys!
Some men will never be good with women. How can I make sure that I am not one of those men?
Meet Mike. Mike is a nice guy, likes to socialize and has taken boot camp with another of the pickup companies. But Mike still isn’t getting the success he wants. He is not successful at all.
There are a couple of reasons why I don’t help Mike. One of them is that he is too stubborn and stubborn. Although that’s not the real reason. If Mike was stubborn, it would be pretty easy for me to change his mind about some things. The main reason I can’t help him is the exact same reason he doesn’t succeed with women.
I’ve already said that Mike is a nice guy, but when I talk to him I always get the feeling that he wants something from me. Many of our mutual friends have also expressed the same. We don’t particularly enjoy hanging out with Mike. And neither do women. He just gives off this vibe of having an ulterior motive. He talks to you like a friend, which is nice, but he naturally gives off this vibe that tells me he’s trying to take something from me.
The same thing happens to Mike when he talks to women. He treats them in a very friendly way and it’s funny, but he still gives off this feeling that on some other level he has underlying intentions. Having intentions with women is not bad. If you express any sensual intention openly, they will accept it. He could even turn them on. He’ll skyrocket your conversion rate if he gets it right.
But then if you hide your intentions, you’ll come off as weird and creepy and women just won’t trust you or feel safe with you alone. Being weird or creepy is that Death card in a Tarot deck from your love life. It will eliminate any chance of success you may have.
To start, you’ll need to start being more fun and detached from any outcome whenever you can. It could be something like telling a good story to some friends or being a good host to a group. It could also be a playful compliment or tease that will evoke emotions in a fun way for a woman. Talk to women because they are amazing, fun, and interesting, not just because you want to flirt.
The next thing to start doing is to be more clear about your intentions. This doesn’t mean telling a girl outright, “The only reason I’m talking to you is so I can get in your pants.” That’s going to kill your chances dead. There are small, subtle changes you can make in your behavior that can affect how your intentions will be perceived and whether you are congruent with what you are saying.