Ways on how to flirt with your wife
To save a marriage, sometimes it is necessary to start from scratch and woo your wife from the beginning. Better yet, he stops thinking of her as a wife for now and starts treating her like the attractive and lovable woman that she is to her. He flirts with her like you did in the old days. Of course, the idea may seem a bit awkward, but the tips below will help you land your “first” marriage date with his spouse.
Look better.
The sleepy, tousled hair look may have been a hit when you were in your prime, but now it’s different and you may need to try harder to look good. Fortunately, grooming essentials for men are pretty basic compared to what women use when grooming. For the basics, a long hot bath would suffice. Scented soap and shampoo aren’t necessary, but they especially help if they’re from the same brand and use the same scent. Combine it with the same aroma of your cologne and after shave or deodorant and you will smell better than ever. Oh, and by the way, applying the same scent with multiple products is called layering: it ensures you’ll stay smelling fresh all day.
Additional grooming products you could use are mouthwashes and maybe some hair styling products.
Also, don’t rule out a trip to the salon. Yes, yes, you can say ‘men don’t go to salons, we go to the barbershop’ but it’s time you got rid of those old school views. Salons are just as good at cutting men’s hair and can even make your sandpaper-rough hands and feet feel smooth to the touch if you want.
The point is to do whatever it takes to look your best. It doesn’t prove you’re vain. Rather, it means that you have done everything possible just to impress her and because you want her to be attracted to you.
Do not be impatient.
Women take a long time to prepare. Well, okay, most, not all, take a long time to get ready. Alright. They’re doing it for you, you know. So instead of whining and making other irritating noises like usual, just wait patiently for his wife to leave the room. Enjoy the fact that you have a lovely woman inside and out doing everything she can to make herself look even prettier because she is excited to go out with you.
Don’t be thrifty with compliments.
Now that you’ve seen your wife dressed to the nines, react appropriately by complimenting her appearance. He tries to notice if there is something new or different about her. It’s a challenge for men, yes, but it’s something your wife would really like. Has she cut or styled her hair? Is she wearing a new dress or shoes?
Now, if you’re totally shocked by her transformation, then don’t just grunt your surprise. Let her enjoy your reaction! Go all out and say ‘wow, you look amazing’. Also, don’t use words to flatter your wife. Use eye and facial expression and body gestures. Slowly look at your wife from head to toe and then back. Let your eyes feast on the beauty of your wife. Let her know that you are savoring every inch of her. Then, when your eyes finally meet hers, let them tell her how much you appreciate the fact that you’re married to her and that you have the rest of her lives to spend next to each other.
Let your wife and everyone else know that you are proud to have her.
Jealousy and excessive possessiveness are technically negative emotions, but they can also add spice to a relationship in some way. When he goes out with her wife, he considers teasing her a little for being jealous of the attention she gets from other men. This is not to magnify her, but simply to let her know and feel that you are not taking her for granted.
You can also show that you are proud to have her as a wife with the way you act. Put an arm around her shoulder or hold her hand as you walk together. Keep her close to her at all times and act courteous and chivalrous by opening doors and pulling out chairs. Don’t forget to take the outer side when you stroll!
Look, look, look.
Do you remember the first dates you enjoyed before you were a couple? Remember all those looks you exchanged? Some of them were fun and flirty, while others were long and hot. Do you remember how pleasant it was to just look at your wife and marvel at the fact that you have the right to hold her and love her forever? There’s no reason you can’t feel the same way now that she’s your wife. So go ahead and stare at her all you want and if she notices her, let her know the truth: that you like to stare at her. If you manage to make her blush, congratulations! That’s a job well done… but the night isn’t over yet.
Celebrate in style.
Budgets are great for weddings and families, but it’s not a sin to celebrate in style on rare occasions. If it’s been a long time since you and your wife went on a date, don’t feel guilty about splurging a little! You both deserve it.
Surprise your wife with a first class dinner. Receive her with a bouquet of roses and bottles of champagne. She has the musicians serenade her while she dines on lobster, strawberries and chocolate.
Be romantic.
Most men think that flirting has a mostly sexual connotation, but for women, the sexual part is only one part. Flirting for women also means being romantic, so if you want to flirt with your wife, then it’s time to refresh your memory on your most romantic moves.
Granted, you may have reached the age where climbing up a balcony with a rose between your teeth is bad for arthritis, but surely no one is old enough to cook a nice hot breakfast in bed or dance under the moonlight to crown a perfect evening.