How to Get Him to Commit: Break a Guy’s Resistance

Would you like your current boyfriend to commit to you now? Think you’re ready for a committed relationship but not sure if your boyfriend is ready for it? Can a man be faithful to a relationship with only one woman?

Commitment is always a tricky subject when it comes to relationships between a man and a woman. Most women in a good relationship generally don’t have a problem with commitment, but we know that most men would recoil or cringe at hearing this; most of them even resort to ending a relationship when this is mentioned. So what does it take for a man to commit then?

Actually, you can’t force your man to commit if he doesn’t want to. All you can do is make him realize that you are now ready to commit and that you want your relationship to progress to the next level. If in the initial stage of your relationship you felt that you are ready for that commitment, do not sleep with him. It is not a way to force him to commit, but to make him realize that this is not a casual affair. Affairs are different from serious girlfriends according to most men on the topic of relationships. Men will always choose hard to get women as girlfriends over flings or one night stands. When you sleep with him on your first date, he would think you always do that. The end result is that you would be classified more as an affair and not a woman with whom you can commit to building a serious relationship.

Strike up a conversation with your guy to let him know your views and feelings about your relationship. Tell him that you are ready to commit to this relationship with him. Since men aren’t open to talking about sharing their feelings, he’ll at least appreciate you telling him how you feel. Don’t pressure him to commit, demand that he stay faithful, or worse, insist on marriage. It’s just you explaining to him how you’ve come to respect this relationship that you’d rather not see other men and wish he didn’t see other women the same way. At this point, his decision to commit now depends on how he sees how good this relationship with you has turned out to be. If he wants to keep seeing other women, he probably doesn’t have the strong feelings you thought he did. Now you better consider your options