How to write a "Sorry" Letter to your girlfriend

The first rule of the forgiveness letter is to mentally put yourself in your girlfriend’s shoes. What is bothering you? What did you say you were feeling because of the situation that caused the conflict? Can you identify with their feelings? If so, let him know and say so. Tell him how you would feel.

If you’re writing an apology letter, hopefully it’s because you really care about the person you’re writing it for. That’s the second rule to follow when writing your sorry letter. Tell her how much you care about her and be honest. Even the toughest girls appreciate being told that someone takes care of them.

By admitting that you have done something wrong, this requires you to admit that there is something that needs to change. That is the third element of the regrettable letter. Expressing what will be different in the future. What will ensure that the problem you are apologizing for does not happen again? This is what should be stated in the unfortunate letter. Why wait for someone to accept an apology when there is no hope that the event will ever happen again?

Relationships are as different and unique as the people who form them. There is no tried and true remedy to fix what has been wronged. However, there is a base from which to start. Compassion, honesty, sincerity, and humility are the key ingredients that can help when writing an “I’m sorry” letter.